about me
Hi, I’m Carla and I’m a feel-oholic.
I’m an overthinker. An analyzer. A learner.
This blog is dedicated to every woman out there just trying to keep up with life, externally and internally. I see you sister!
This is a no-judgement zone. Your thoughts and perceptions are valid. Let’s brave this roller coaster together.

We All Have That One Person Who All The Songs Are About
We’ve all been there - the sad song starts playing and you immediately visualize that person’s face. Regrettably, human nature tends to gift us with a knack for remembering pain. Sometimes we can even dwell on it to the point where it feels strangely...
Last Of The Collateral Damage
Have you ever noticed that sometimes there are patterns in your life that keep repeating themselves?Certain series of events will play themselves out over and over, like bad music on repeat.It’s like there’s a lesson in there somewhere and you just don’t...
Focus on what is and not what if, as you work on what will be.
The trajectory of my life is made up by a series of big and small choices I make and the consequences of these choices that eventually create my unique story.Sometimes we do not have a choice and must deal with the repercussions anyway.We of course do not...